Internet has changed our world fast and forever.

Global markets are the feature affecting every industry.

The whole world is watching “American Idol”, “Survivor” and “Friends”, listening to Eminem and Britney Spears, admiring “The Lord Of The Rings” and “Titanic”, and reading the latest New York bestsellers. 

We wear Malaysian-made jeans, Korean-made running shoes and our kids play with Chinese-made toys.

When you call to a tall-free number, someone in India, via Internet, handles your call. 

Jobs are increasingly shipped overseas where companies can save thousands of $$$ using discrepancies in the income level. Why pay someone $100 per hour for a programming job when you can pay $20 per hour to someone in Eastern Europe and have the job done just as well?

Whether you like it or not, you are a part of global markets!

You can either be the object of globalization, the passive element of the world growing smaller — or you can jump on the opportunity and become the subject and the user.

Those opportunities are everywhere!

You might be astounded to find an offshore company that can handle your website needs for a fraction of the money you are paying to your current employees! 

Even if you do most of the work yourself, you might be in better off paying somebody overseas to save your valuable time for something that no one but you can perform.

And not only business-like!

Your business may be run by other people but there are certain things in your life that only YOU can do; one of them is finding a love partner.

Global markets are on this one, too!

International romance is no longer something people or newspapers are interested in talking about; it’s kind of ordinary. Every day thousands people are chatting to somebody overseas via online dating sites. If you ever grow tired of your local dating market, you can always explore new global markets where you can score more!

The demographics of a particular country may provide an exciting opportunity for you to meet a partner of better quality than is available for you at home.

Men to women ratios differ dramatically between the countries.

For example, the latest figures from The Economist show that in United Arab Emirates there are 186 males for 100 females! It’s clear the competition for eligible females should be stiff there. If you are a single guy, getting a woman would be hard in Emirates!

The lowest men to women ratios are in Eastern Europe, with countries like Russia and Ukraine having only 88 males for 100 females. There the situation is exactly the opposite way around: eligible bachelors are more precious than gold.

The latest Russian census provided astounding figures of 10 million more women than men!

No wonders modern Russian women utilize global markets and seek love and romance elsewhere!

So if you were a single male, exploring your dating options in Russia would make the perfect sense.

Global markets not only influence the economy on a wide scale; they also affect people’s personal lives.

One can choose to be a passive element of globalization, or an active user of the new exciting opportunities offered by it.

What is YOUR place in global markets?

There is no single man who would not want to meet a woman who is beautiful, intelligent, educated, fit, stylish and sexy.

All men want a girlfriend like this!

The problem is there are not many girls possessing those qualities that are unattached and available. Girls like this usually have a string of admirers and an attitude. You might even think they are out of your league.

Think again!

In your country, this may be true… But the world is so much bigger than that! In some countries, things are exactly the opposite way around: there is a huge shortage of nice, intelligent and stable single men! 

Take Eastern Europe for example: the latest statistics from The Economist show that in places like Russia and Ukraine there are only 88 men for 100 women! In Russia alone, there are 10 million more women than men!

It means there are TEN MILLION WOMEN that will NEVER find a partner!

Historically, during 20th century, women in Russia always outnumbered men, with World War 2 that took lives of 20 million Soviet people, and other 20 million people that died in Stalin’s concentration camps. 90% of them were men. 

At that time, for a Russian woman, simply having a man was a blessing!

This created a unique situation between the genders where women were forced to perfect their looks in order to find and keep a mate.

Check Russian dating sites: you will find there thousands beautiful girls that are looking for a partner: well groomed, fashionable and stylish, they will leave you breathless.

Read about their education and you will be stunned: most of them possess advanced university degrees. 

Don’t be surprised: about 60% of people in Russia have college or university degrees, others have completed at least 2-year professional training. The system of professional education was inherited from the Soviet times, where young people were required to attend professional training after completing the mandatory high school qualification. They don’t have equivalents of associate or honors degrees, and the person has to complete at least 4-year degree, or they don’t receive ANY qualification. This is how the state convinces young people to complete their studies. (By the way, education and medical are still f*r*e*e in Russia.)

On Russian dating sites, you will find thousands women that are beautiful, intelligent, educated, fit, stylish and sexy - and at the same time unattached and available. 

And they are looking for nice, intelligent and stable guys - just like you!

The bad news is, you will never be able to meet them…

Why?!

Because you never look at Russian dating sites. You have this attitude that “mail order brides” are something a decent man will never consider: it is only desperate losers that would look for a partner at such sites. You read in press horror stories about “mail order brides” and this phrase is strongly connected in your mind with such topics as violence, abuse, sexual exploitation, trafficking in women and immigration scams. You believe that men that seek wives abroad simply cannot find anybody in their own country and seek obedient, submissive wives. Do you?

Well, then you are for a wake up call. There is no such a thing as “Russian mail order brides” - no more than there is Santa Claus!

There are Russian women seeking suitable partners. Those women are not desperate to leave their country and are proud of their inheritance and culture. They are educated, intelligent, and smart. They are not going to become intimate submissives or maids. They will not tolerate infidelity or abuse. They truly seek SUITABLE partners and will not jump on anybody, just to get out of their misery. 

In fact, they do NOT consider their life miserable! On her average salary, a Russian woman can afford to attend live performances and beauty saloons a few times a month, buy best-selling books, latest fashion and Italian shoes. 

Actually, I used to have much more exciting life in Russia with overseas vacations and quality entertainment than I have now, living in the west!

The same is applicable to many Russian women seeking partners abroad. They are articulate, sophisticated, well read and well traveled. 

Obedient, submissive “Russian mail order brides” do not exist!

You don’t have to believe my word.

Read what American men say about that:

http://www.womenrussia.com/eight_reasons.htm 

P.S. Personally, I hate this label “mail order brides”. I believe it is a disgrace to imply a human being can be ordered as an item, and the sacred companionship of marriage may be purchased as an electrical toothbrush from mail order catalog.

C’mon guys! So called “mail order brides” services do not sell women. They sell access to contact information of their members, that’s it - just like you join a local singles club and they give you contact details of people that may be interested in meeting you. Russian dating agencies also have socials like speed dating services where interested men and women can meet each other. Only men and women, themselves, decide whom they want to date. You cannot buy a bride!

It is 21st century, pals! 

Wake up - and smell the roses! :-))

Check Elena’s latest e-book “How To Find And Marry A Girl Like Me” (http://www.womenrussia.com/book) and see what kind of women you can meet at so called “mail order brides” websites!

You know the scenario. You start dating a woman. After the first date, all you get is a peck on the cheek.

Second date, you get a mouth kiss. Third date, you hold hands. It’s a very slow process.

You can’t understand why it has to take so long to have sex with the woman. After all, you’re buying her meals. You even splurged on some pretty flowers.

In short… you’re being incredibly nice to the woman. So what’s the problem? Why won’t she have sex with you?

It comes down to human motivation. People behave in ways that cause them to get rewarded. They avoid behaviors that cause them punishment.

So the reason why guys often have trouble getting laid is because they reward bad behavior. A chick will lead them on and then make it clear there won’t be sex that night, yet the guy rewards her by cuddling with her.

A better solution would be to punish the bad behavior by being a lot less interested in cuddling with her. Never underestimate the power of getting up from the couch and walking out the door.

Remember, to harvest the full enjoyment out of life and to have women be attracted to you, you need to be an alpha male. That means being powerful. So make sure you get treated the way you deserve to be.

Did a chick do something (like have sex with you) that deserves rewarding? Then go ahead and do something nice for her. Take her on a date to a fancy restaurant. Buy her filet mignon and Don Perignon (if you’ve got the money).

Does a chick just string you along, telling you nice things that she would do for you if only she didn’t have a boyfriend? Then withdraw your attention, and go talk to other girls instead of her.

Frame all of your behavior towards women in terms of punishment and reward, and you’ll be treated the way you deserve (or else you’ll move onto another woman who WILL treat you right).

John Alexander is author of “How to Become an Alpha Male”… a seduction success guide for men. Learn more advanced tips on how to develop the mind set of an alpha male to find the success with women that you desire.

Wouldn’t it be nice if you could create feelings within a woman of a deep connection with you… even if you two have known each other for only a few hours… and without having to resort to complicated (and risky!) hypnosis tactics?

Well, good news. There is a very easy, no-risk way to do this. I call it the Fated Encounter Technique.

Here’s why it works. Every woman has a fantasy from the time she was a little girl, triggered by a constant diet of romance movies and novels, about fate bringing the man of her dreams to her.

In one typical scene the guy and the girl almost bump into each other on the sidewalk. Instead, fate keeps them apart, and they go their separate ways.

Then, two years later, they live in the same apartment building. Yet after several close calls, they still don’t meet, again because of fate.

The two date other people, off and on, and yet are never happy. Months go by. The man and the woman each ponder what it will be like when they meet that special someone, someday…

And then near the end of the movie, fate finally brings them together. And of course they hit it off right from the start.

Wouldn’t it be nice if that could happen in real life, rather than having to wait through several dates before the woman finally feels comfortable enough with you to have sex?

Well, it can. You can speed the seduction process and have the woman feeling deeply connected with you by using my Fated Encounter Technique. I’ll explain how it works.

During the course of your conversation with the woman, you bring up places she has been to. If you’ve been to those same places, you then talk about how amazing it is that the two of you could have been there at the same time and yet destiny kept you apart.

Let’s say, to use a recent example I encountered, that she shops at the local Whole Foods grocery store.

You can then say, “That’s awesome. I shop there too. Imagine, we’ve probably seen each other there all the time!”

Another example would be that the two of you go to downtown LA all the time, and probably have walked past each other on many occasions.

And now, you can say, “Isn’t it amazing how fate has finally brought us together?”

As the conversation progresses, the two of you can talk about other coincidences, and the things the two of you might have done together if you’d only known each other.

With the seed planted, as the girl thinks about those coincidences, and how “fate” has now brought the two of you together, she will then start to feel as if she’s known you, on a deeper psychic level, for a lot longer than just a few hours.

You, she concludes, are the man she’s been waiting for all her life.

John Alexander is author of “How to Become an Alpha Male” … a seduction success guide for men. Learn the 7 Step Seduction System that takes you from saying “hello” to a new woman… to sharing orgasms in bed with her… in just one evening!

There is a new type of dating that grows from inside the old, “dating game” mode - evolved dating.

What is ‘evolved dating’?

It is dating for people who KNOW WHAT THEY ARE DOING. In other words, people who are
aware of the dynamics of men-women relationships, body language, effective communication, who have
their life together and who understand that there is more to dating than pick-up lines.

Those people DON’T need the usual dating games, playing hard-to-get etc, etc. Like high-level sportsmen,
they can spot each other in an instant.

Those people are the ones that cannot be missed in a crowd, who draw all the attention, even when they are seemingly doing nothing.

They don’t lie or use tricks; they are refreshingly honest and straightforward. And they never feel ashamed or inferior.

They possess calm, relaxed confidence that is as powerful as a nuclear reactor. The people comment about them, “There is something special about you” or call it, “a presence”.

They simply look you in the eyes, and you start feeling weak at your knees. Your heart skips a bit and you start feeling dizzy. I have experienced this myself and seen this effect at work, once I learned how to do it.

You may now start wondering, how to gain such a power?

It’s extremely simple, and at the same time it’s hard work.

How can it be?

Because doing these things is really simple - but to make oneself doing them, takes commitment and courage.

It’s like giving up smoking - all you need to do is to stop buying your own cigarettes and borrowing from others. It’s really simple. But so many people have been smoking for many years and complain they cannot give up. (I have NEVER met a smoker who was over 20 and didn’t want to quit!)

People that are on the level of evolved dating are the people who are successful. My definition of success is:
success is doing what it takes when you know you must do it. 

Really simple.

Over the years I realized that there is really nothing new under the sun, and the simple things are the ones that work the best.

I have also realized that anyone can develop him or herself to the level of evolved dating, in as short a period as one year (or less).

The place to start is to STOP seeking approval of others. 
This will have an effect so dramatic, you can see the results in a month time - people will start asking you what happened and saying you have changed.

The key here:
WHAT OTHER PEOPLE THINK ABOUT YOU IS *NONE*
OF YOUR BUSINESS.

Most people worry all their life what other people will think of them, or what others will say, etc, etc. It’s like
cutting your own wings. You can fly but you refuse because you are afraid what others may think.

You maybe afraid being the best you can be because you think others can feel uncomfortable in your company. The truth is, it’s exactly the other way around: by allowing yourself to be the best you can be, you give permission to others to be the best they can be.

Stop worrying about others. You are the most important person in your life and you only have so many years to live on this Earth. Make yourself happy and stop taking responsibility for other people’s happiness. Your happiness is your choice. Their happiness is their choice. As long as they are adults, their happiness is none of your business.

And stop faking it.

You fake things because you are afraid the others won’t like you the way you are. The truth is, the others are faking themselves just as you do, to please you. If you are honest, you are allowing them to be honest, too.

This is what evolved dating is about, and this is why those people are so powerfully confident: they don’t fake it. They simply ARE. They don’t seek your approval and they don’t expect you to seek theirs.

Most people try to give themselves to other people.
People that are on the level of evolved dating give you the gift of being YOURSELF. You don’t have to fake it with them.

You can reach the level of evolved dating, too.

When do you want to start?

ABOUT THE AUTHOR: 

Elena Solomon is a dating coach.